Worcester and Droitwich Branch
How Does It Feel to be a
Grandmother?
When my daughter asked me to write an article on being a Grandparent I did not know what to write. So I
started with the simple question of “How does it feel to
be a Grandmother?”
I would describe it as being on a rollercoaster - ups and
downs, anticipation and then reality, but definitely worth
the trip!
Unlike some of my friends, I never longed to have
grandchildren – to me it seemed indicative of the ageing
process. I recognise that young couples today are often
driven by careers, financial burdens and fulfilling the
countless opportunities on offer – and to add a child to
that mix brings pressure in a life already lived in the fast
lane. All I want for my daughters is for them to be
happy doing whatever they choose to do.
Having said that, it was elating to hear that a baby was
expected and the anticipation of the new arrival was a
learning curve to me as well as my daughters. The
world has changed so much since the late 70’s/early
80’s – dietary pressures, car safety, work entitlements,
paternity leave, technology – the list is endless. When I
was pregnant soft cheese was rarely available in our
shops, so I had no need to avoid eating it. We took
photos on a reel of film which then went to the chemist
to be developed and collected several days later. Scans
during pregnancy were only carried out for specific reasons, not routinely as they are now and my girls travWorcester and Droitwich Branch Autumn 2015
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