5. Put those smart phones away. The bedroom is no place
for Facebook and Twitter. It gets in the way of intimate
communication, and paying attention to other while your
lover is right there is a turn off.
6. Watch your alcohol consumption. Too many drinks can
cloud your judgment and detach you from the moment. This
is particularly important when having serious and heartfelt
discussions. Although alcohol can reduce inhibitions, making
it easier to speak, it can also increase the chances of saying
hurtful and unproductive things you don’t really mean.
7. Don’t overdose on too many romantic comedies. All those
happily-ever-after movies can set up unrealistic expectations
for both partners. Better yet, why not just turn off the TV?
9. The magic touch. Touch is one of our most powerful
senses. Holding hands, walking arm in arm, stroking her
hair, patting him on the butt – are all ways of saying I love
you without speaking. Couples that demonstrate their love
for one another using these small physical gestures feel a
closer connection.
10. Honour each other in some way every day. Look for
opportunities to make your relationship sweeter. Little
things such as a kind word, a card or note, flowers – they’re
not corny. They are wonderful.
Finally, remember to give what you would like to get
in return. If you want to feel understood, try to be more
understanding. If you want more love, try giving more love.•
8. Get Busy at least once a week. Studies have demonstrated
that having sex is good for you in many ways. It’s good for
both your physical and emotional health, and couples that
make love regularly tend to be happier in general. If you
and/or your partner could use a little extra help, consider
trying safe and natural health products to address sexual
health issues. As always, consult your healthcare professional
if you think you may be experiencing a more serious issue.
Mark is a partner with Muse Marketing Group. He writes about
design, marketing, consumer behaviour, and social media issues.
Creating and maintaining healthy relationships is a recurring theme
in his work. musemarketinggroup.ca
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