She Magazine JULY 2016 | Page 108

Women Who Serve feature THERE WERE SOME MEMORABLE MOMENTS DURING HER TIME OF SERVICE AS WELL, such as the night when Hussein’s two sons were killed. “The night was filled with the sound of the Iraqi people’s gunshots as they celebrated by shooting up into the air.” There was also the assignment in Jackson Hole, Wyoming, where Kristen and her squadron were in charge of providing air surveillance for a house belonging to Dick Cheney. The most meaningful moment of all, however, was when Kristen met her now-husband, Mike. She originally met Mike while in Mississippi, where they dated casually during training. Things never became serious, as they were certain they would be sent to different areas of the world. Eventually, the couple was stationed at two different bases within the same town. They stayed together throughout Kristen’s deployment to Kuwait and Iraq and throughout Mike’s deployment to Uzbekistan. The day Kristen arrived home, Mike proposed to her, and they were married four months later. After four years in the same career field, Kristen served her last two years in Human Resources. In July 2004, she was moved to Shaw Air Force Base in Sumter, South Carolina. In 2007, Kristen exited as a Staff Sergeant (E-5). “There are two things I enjoyed the most about serving: making friends with people from all over the country and getting to travel. From the time you start basic training through your entire military career, you’re constantly meeting new people from all over the country. Everybody’s background, experiences, and perspectives are so different and unique. It’s interesting to learn about the various traditions and upbringing people have had. I also enjoyed traveling and seeing different parts of the country and the world. Even though some of the places I got to see while in the military weren’t the ideal places I’d want to go, it was still extremely interesting to get to see those parts of the world that I never would have seen had I not joined the Air Force.” Kristen believes one of the greatest misconceptions about qualifying for the military is being physically strong. But, it’s so much more than that. “I feel it’s more about being mentally strong. I’ve had many women tell me they couldn’t join the military because they aren’t strong enough, or they didn’t think they could make it through basic training. I tell them all the same thing: if you can be strong mentally, the physical strength will come eventually, and you’ll make it through.” Kristen learned this firsthand, as she saw her own strength and independence increase while serving. “I’ve made it through things in my life that I never thought I would have to experience, and I’ve come out stronger because of it.” 110 JULY 2016 BECAUSE OF THE MONTGOMERY GI BILL, KRISTEN WAS ABLE TO finish her bachelor’s degree and two associate’s degrees without the nee