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PAGE 6 RISE RACE & IDENTITY 10 STRUGGLES OF BEING BLACK AND WHITE It’s not easy being black and white. Here are ten struggles that are faced by people of mixed races every day. by Brianna Raysor 1 2 3 THE EXPLANATION No, I am not adopted. I understand that it may be confusing to you because my mom is white and I’m not, but I do have a dad, and once you see him, it’ll make more sense. 6 "PICK A SIDE" Since they are two sides to your identity, people expect you to identify with one or the other. 7 THE NAMES FEELING MARGINALIZED Sometimes you get the feeling that you aren’t “authentic” enough for either race. So, where do you fit in? Will you ever truly be accepted by either side? 5 BEIN AN "EXCEPTION" When somebody excuses you from a belief they have about one of your races, because you are not “fully” that race. For example, “I HATE black people, but you don’t count because you aren’t ‘really’ black. You act white.” hmmm, thanks??? "Are you sure that you're black?" Sorry, but I don't just have my parents' birth certifica tes in my back pocket. STANDARDS Don't fetishize or idealize me because you think I'm 'exotic' looking. p.s. I answer my text messages. "Mutt". "Hybrid". "Halfie". "Oreo". Okay, we get it. Just stop. I'm not a cookie. 8 4 THE DOUBTERS DISCRIMINATON Believe it or not, people still discriminate against us. Just because YOU don’t discriminate does not mean that others don’t. Stop being so insensitive to our experiences and feelings. 9 HAIR 10 IDENTITY Yes, my hair is naturally curly. No, you can't touch it. IPeople identify you before you get a chance to identify yourself. Therefore, they treat you as who they THINK you are, not as who you KNOW you are.