Resonate Edition 30 | Page 10

TRENDS: a how-to guide Our resident millennial, Teagan Dwyer-Riviere, rewrites the rule book, flipping trends on their head and considering how they might actually be used for good. how to #yolo Be intentional Be self-aware You only live once - strangely profound words for a hashtag. We could take the view that this is a call to jump out of a plane and throw wild parties every second weekend. However, I’m not convinced. I like to think that the truth of #YOLO might act as a motivator to be intentional about the short time we have. Rather than always looking for the next fleeting experience, could we instead think about how our time and focus can be best used for God in His big-picture? Being aware of your best angle might not help you make a friend, however, being self-aware really can. Why do you think the way you do about politics, the 9-5 work day and Taylor Swift? Understanding how our own perspectives and worldviews are entrenched in our culture and upbringing can go a long way in helping us engage with people cross-culturally. Being intentional about building meaningful friendships, developing substance over style and going deep in our relationship with God may just take us on adventures that are truly worthy of the YOLO hashtag. If we consider every moment to be a gift from God, then let’s use our time in a way that honours Him. Who knows where it might take us? It’s comfortable to have a set idea about the way, for instance, a particular meal should be cooked (how grandma makes it, obviously) but, what about when we go to the other side of the world, or street, and a potential friend prepares the same meal how their grandmother would? It’s a trivial example, but being aware of how our own worldview has been shaped allows us to be more open to learn from another person’s perspective. This is vital in forming friendships and sharing the Gospel in culturally relevant ways. how to get followers how to take a selfie resonate · issue 30 · page 9 Be outward focussed If you get teary (or maybe a little agro) when you’re unfriended on Facebook, it may be time to put the phone down and consider a broader perspective. As a disciple of Jesus, it is our job to encourage people to become followers of Him, not of us. Jesus told fishermen, Simon and Andrew, ‘Come follow me… and I will send you out to fish for people.’ Jesus’ call to them, and us, is to follow Him and invite others to follow Him also. Sounds easy, right?! Well no, but we don’t have to do it alone. God’s Spirit is in us, building up our faith, guiding us and speaking to and through us. And it’s all about relationship. Within the context of mutual trust and genuine care, there can be natural openings to explore faith and invite others to meet Jesus.