Reflections Magazine Issue #73 - Winter 2011 | Page 21

Feature Article continued from page 20 . . . Many a morning, before I would head to class, we would sit at her dining room table and talk about all the big wonderful things we would do someday. Then we would sip some more coffee and express our concerns and worries about whatever anxieties might be on our minds. Invariably she would look at me with her kind blue eyes, smiling, reaching for my hand with a quick reassuring squeeze, saying, “Jamie, if that’s the worst you ever have to worry about, everything will be okay.” My Grandma Eleanor died less than a year after I graduated from Siena; I cherish the time we spent together and know her love surrounds me now. “I was a stranger and you welcomed me, naked and you clothed me…” In those early days at Siena, I wasn’t merely a stranger because I was new and didn’t know other students; in many ways, in hindsight, I was just beginning to get to know myself. “Being clothed” was quite literal – as in the chance to wear the Saints colors for cross country and track. The camaraderie of running for Siena granted me the great gift of tremendous friendships that endure and strengthen with time. There’s no substitute for shared experience. Coach Smith, with that booming voice, would tell us if we didn’t run faster we’d get beat on like a snare drum, and Coach Bauer threatened “cheese sandwiches” as our meal choice if we underperformed at a meet. They said encouraging things, too, but those threats were attention getting and memorable! And when it comes to being less of a stranger to yourself, and beginning to understand your own world view, there was nothing that could compare to American Political Values with Sister Peg