Reflections Magazine Issue #70 - Fall 2009 | Page 9

Athletics Feature “When I was in Germany, there was still aggression over there, but there were no gunshots or anything like that,” he said. “Now it’s a different scenario because of 9/11 and the policies of the Bush Administration to take action against the terrorist acts. He would have some action. I never did, so it was a totally different scenario than it was for me.” Everything in Chris Boertje’s world suddenly stopped. School. Baseball. Friends. It all went on hold while he packed for three months of U.S. Army pre-mobilization training in Texas.They prepared for specific missions and possible obstacles in the Iraqi deserts. Upon completion of the pre-mob training, the unit received a four-day vacation before its sendoff ceremony and an uncertain future. “A lot of emotions right there,” Michael Boertje said. “He’s my only son. I was proud of him. I had pride in him. A lot of fatherly love there.” Next stop: Iraq. He still remembers the patrol drives. His unit considered every inanimate object a potential threat. “On the main road, there’s stuff all over the side of the road,” Chris Boertje said. “You don’t know what it is. It could blow up. It could destroy your vehicle. Bad stuff could happen. There was a lot to worry about just driving down a road.” His family and friends still remember the diluted conversations via telephone or Internet. He couldn’t say much, just that he was doing OK. There’s only so much Chris Boertje can tell. He couldn’t reveal many specifics. Most classified as top-secret information and punishment would ensue should they end up in print. The information he could give, however, painted a clear picture of both the everyday danger and saddening detachment from family and friends. After almost a year of service, Chris Boertje finally learned a timeframe for his return to the U.S. Nothing official, though. Some time around December 2008. But it at least hinted that he neared the finish line. “It was difficult at times, because our conversations were very limited,” Kolasinski said. “He didn’t always have email access, and what he could say, he had to be very careful in what he said. He could only hint that he was coming back at such-and-such a time. He couldn’t give any dates, because they would eliminate that from an email in case it fell into the wrong hands.” Kolasinski hung Chris Boertje’s No. 4 jersey in the Siena dugout every game during the 2008 season. He said the situation put life into perspective for him and his team. “Difficult things happen,” Kolasinski said. “When you’re involved in athletics, you have a close group, and then suddenly you have to look outside the team box. It’s part of the growing-up process. You realize there are other things than baseball going on. Someone in their family can serve, or they can serve, there can be deaths—lots of stuff. “It isn’t all fun and games. There’s a completely different world.” The Day He Got There “It’s like a puzzle, and you have to put the pieces together,” Michael Boertje said. “You can read the news, watch the news on TV. Sometimes you can pick up on the military terminology. You put the pieces together, and you come up with a possible scenario about what’s going on.” Chris Boertje maintained communication with friends through instant messaging. He credits close friend Ashley Hubbard with helping him most. “He probably talked to people back here about once a week,” Hubbard said. “He couldn’t say what was going on, but it was better than no confirmation at all. He still remembers his first steps on Iraqi soil. The desert sun caused the ground to roast. He trudged into the thick, damp heat and scanned the foreign landscape. “He talked about all the wear and tear he was going through. He would work something like 18 hours on his missions and not get a lot of sleep. He always said how tired he was. He wasn’t getting sleep, and he was getting really stressed.” “We had to look out for obstacles anywhere, in the road or on the side of the road. It was scary,” Chris Boertje said. “I had butterflies in my stomach. I was able to talk myself down and prepare myself, knowing what could happen and what can happen. Chris Boertje talked to his parents by telephone. The calls, though, weren’t predictable. Michael Boertje and his wife, Andrea, would sometimes hear from him every few days, while other times, he would call every few weeks. “All the training we did prepared us for anything that could happen, so we knew what to do. So that made me feel a little better.” And the worst part: He couldn’t say when he could call next. His parents waited and wondered. “It wasn’t official until we actually got on the plane to come back,” he said. Chris Boertje’s return timeframe didn’t cause his mother and father to exhale just yet. Twenty years in the military taught Michael Boertj