Pulse February 2019 issue - Page 22

22 Nabi Our misery sponges are becoming saturated I am lying on an unfamiliar mattress in my holiday villa in Spain, cursing the barista while trying to get to sleep. I’ve watched the clock go from 12am to 1am to 2am, in a caffeine-fuelled daze. Just when I think I’m dropping off, the drip-drip of rain on the metal pipe wakes me up with a judder. Flashing before me is a vision I haven’t had for more than 25 years. All I can see is her entire body shaking with the fear of her memories. I was 25 years old when I listened to her narrative of savage physical and sexual abuse endured at the hands of a man with a long metal pipe. When she could no longer hide behind her mask, she was admitted to the ward for severe depression and PTSD, and I was her psychiatrist. As I relive these vivid memories myself, my eyes mist with sorrow. I lie here, 25 years on, and can remember every detail of her story; I can picture her clothes, her jewellery, her face. I realise my subconscious has been unlocked by the sound of rain on a metal pipe, and it is at this moment that the tears come tumbling down and I silently sob into my pillow. I realise that I, too, am suffering from a form of PTSD when the sound of a metal pipe can evoke such powerful emotions in me. I lie here and think of all the trauma we faced in the everyday business of our role. Trauma we were too young and inexperienced to handle and with no Pulse February 2019 mandated debriefing sessions to punctuate it. Our solace lay at the bottom of a pint glass at the pub, to block out all the disturbing images so we no longer had to process them. The pint glass also meant I didn’t have to process the feeling of complete inadequacy when attempting to insert an intraosseous needle as I tried to resuscitate a four-month- old baby in my role as medical SHO. It meant I didn’t have to process the violent suicide I witnessed on a home visit, in a patient I had known for many years. And experience doesn’t make it much easier now to process the harrowing stories of torture faced by my patients who are looking to us for asylum. We are continuously faced with trauma in our working lives and we’re just supposed to mop it up and absorb it like a sponge. We are subjected to repeated 10-minute soakings of human misery and are expected to bring a smile to each new encounter. But what happens when the sponge is saturated? It starts leaking unless it is squeezed out to dry. We need to be squeezed out on a regular basis but instead we are left in the corner of the sink to fester. Psychotherapists have weekly debriefing Psychotherapists have sessions with a trained weekly debriefings with supervisor; we see no less pain than them, a supervisor; we see no but we are left isolated less pain than them and leaky. Wouldn’t all the money that goes into appraisal and revalidation be better spent if it was diverted to provide us with regular debriefing sessions? This would be far more likely to keep us working within the profession, ready to absorb the next deluge. Until this unlikely salvation arrives, I am just thankful I work with a great team of colleagues who do periodically squeeze me out and help make me a little less leaky. Dr Shaba Nabi is a GP trainer in Bristol Read more Dr Nabi’s blogs online at pulsetoday.co.uk/nabi