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[10] When Conflicts Arise
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circumstance with equanimity, there would be bliss (anand). But
as of now, I am not able to do that.
Dadashri: So here you have to gradually maintain
awareness and do it. As you spend time with Me, those changes
will come. If just one word of mine falls on your ears, then that
very one word will continue to do the work.
The Purusharth of Conversation with
‘Chandubhai’
Questioner: We have a saying, ‘One lives to be a hundred
if he defies death once.’ In this manner, how wonderful would
it be if we can gain control over our kashays (inner anger-pride-
deceit-greed) when they arise. How much would we have
conquered!
Dadashri: It is like this: what do you mean by ‘control’?
It means You can do it whenever you wish. If You can find Your
Gnan, Be in Your Gnan, then these wretched things (kashays)
will remain in control for sure; Gnan verily will do all the work.
Hence the best solution for that is to talk to ‘Chandubhai’,
‘How are you ‘Chandubhai’? What is going on? Why did you
hurt her?’ Talking to him in this way is verily the solution. What
should you say?
Questioner: That I should constantly talk with him and
keep telling him, ‘This is not a good thing you are doing. Why
do you miss this key opportunity and enter into kashay?’
Dadashri: That is what You have to say. You can tell him
everything. And if he still misses the opportunity, you can tell him
again and make him do pratikraman. Pratyakhyan should also
be done. Otherwise, he is likely to believe that whatever he did
was right.
Forced Expression of Unpleasant Karma
When you do pratikraman, your opinion is gone in regards