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When Conflicts Arise
Unsettled Accounts of Past Life
Questioner: Conflict occurs only with those with whom
we have a karmic connection (roonanubandha), right? Conflicts
will not occur with others, will they?
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Dadashri: Conflict occurs only with those with whom we
have past life accounts (hisaab).
Questioner: I do not have conflict with anyone anymore.
I am able to make sure of that everywhere else, but with her,
although the conflict has reduced significantly, every six to eight
months I am not able to do inner penance (aantarik tapa); I
end up saying things to her.
Dadashri: There is no problem with that. You have no
choice but to settle that. She has to discharge her karma, you
have to discharge your karma, and that is precisely where the
conflict occurs. So you cannot attribute the mistake to just one
person; both are at mistake for sure. One may be forty percent
at mistake, or sixty percent, or thirty percent, etc. Nevertheless,
both the parties are at mistake to some degree.
Questioner: Then we are able to come to a closure
(samadhan) on the issue within two to five minutes.
Dadashri: That will occur.
Questioner: Now if, at that time, I am able to do
parakram (extraordinary spiritual effort) and settle that