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184 Pratikraman in your mind. The effects in your mind will entangle the other person. He will not know exactly what is going on but it will entangle him. Therefore, you should destroy such opinions. You should wash off all your opinions, and then you are free. Then your mind will change. Many people’s speech has been completely spoiled, and that too is because of opinions. Hence, the problem lies with the opinions one has stored. There is no problem with opinions that have not been stored. Questioner: But are we not liable for the scorn we experience today? Dadashri: No, you are not liable; when you ‘see’ and ‘know’ then you are not liable. When you become aware of the fact that, ‘When this person comes along, I feel scorn towards him and when that person comes along, I feel happy within,’ then it is more than enough. Questioner: Should one do pratikraman then? Dadashri: You should do pratikraman if the other person feels hurt. Thoughts will come and go; you do not have to do pratikraman for that. For that you have to have in your mind that ‘this should not be so.’ That is more than enough if you say that. You need pratikraman when someone gets hurt by your anger or negativity. Questioner: So I do not have to do pratikraman for having such thoughts? Dadashri: All that will continue to take place. It took no time when it went in and it takes no time to come out. *****