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stop to it,” Fuller suggests. “When the game starts, the coach is in charge and parents should enjoy pulling for the entire team, not just their own child.” LET THE COACH DO THEIR JOB Coaches sacrifice so much time and energy. Parents can be supportive of the coach and team without getting in the way. “It’s OK to drop your kid off at practice and not stay and watch,” Fuller said. Support the team and help the coach by organizing fundraisers, providing drinks for the team or helping at practice, “But make sure you’re doing it for the whole team, and not to influence your kid’s playing time.” When is it appropriate for parents to intervene? For the most part, parents should step back and let the coach do their job. But if they have concerns that league rules are being broken, for example, it needs to be addressed. Fuller suggests bringing the issue to the attention of league officials first, and allow them to handle it. When the game starts, the coach is in charge and parents should enjoy pulling for the entire team, not just their own child. CHEER FOR THE WHOLE TEAM Creating an atmosphere of team spirit can go a long way in encouraging the players and coaches. It’s rare to hear parents cheering for all of the players these days, Fuller said. Making a point to cheer for the entire team is a great way to model good sportsmanship to your child, their teammates and the other parents in the stands. Be careful not to put your own child on a pedestal by constantly bragging about their accomplishments. “You can create a great atmosphere by loving your child no matter what their statistics may say. If they have the Godgiven talent to perform, they will,” Fuller said. “And if not, they are still your child and will be for the rest of their lives and yours.” SHE SUCCESSFULLY PLAYED THE SAME PRANK ON HER MOTHER THREE TIMES IN A SINGLE DAY AND REMAINS CONFIDENT SHE COULD DO IT AGAIN. C H I L D R E N A M A Z E U S E V E R Y D AY and at Children’s of Alabama we want to see every child grow up and live to their fullest potential. That’s why we recruit, train and retain the most inquiring minds, the most skilled hands and the most compassionate hearts in pediatric medicine. 1600 7TH AVENUE SOUTH BIRMINGHAM, AL 35233 (205) 638-9100 ChildrensAL.org Mark Fuller is a former pitcher and coach at Auburn University, with more than 16 years of experience coaching and playing baseball, including five years playing minor league pro ball. He owns Sports Academy in East Alabama, where he lives with his family. www.potentialmagazine.com PotentialMagazine_COA_HeadlineAd_Prank.indd 1 15 2/10/15 4:20 PM