Potential Magazine May 2015 | Page 14

game on sports etiquette As our children’s biggest fans, we hope that we are encouraging them to play their best and motivate them to succeed on the field. But what if all that “support” is actually doing more harm to our young athletes than good? Mark Fuller, former Auburn University baseball player and coach, shared his advice about how “sideline parenting” can not only affect kids’ performance on the field but also impact their relationship with parents, coaches and teammates. Here are four areas where parents should be aware of the message their actions might be sending to their young athletes. AVOID UNNECESSARY PRESSURE Mark’s approach with his own kids is to make sure they understand their performance is in no way tied to their value. “I encourage them to compete and work hard but I tell them that I do not love them more if they per