Potential Magazine Fall 2015 - Florida Edition | Page 27

Don’t Take on Too Much Biting off more than you can chew can lead to increased stress. There is a simple solution. Learn to identify what you really want and need to do, and if you have ample time and resources to do it and do it well. When you’ve reached your limit, don’t accept any additional obligations. Learn to say no. The hectic schedules that surround going back to school—and the nine months that follow—can cause real chaos and unnecessary stress in your household. Follow these tips for getting and staying organized to ensure you’ve got the time and energy you need to keep your family focused and un-frazzled. Establish a Routine Variety may be the spice of life, but establishing a regular routine can help your household operate more efficiently. There’s no one way that’s right for every family, but once you find the rhythm and flow that works for you, stick with it. Set a time that everyone needs to be out of bed each morning, and try to allow time for a quick, healthy family breakfast. Designate a homework and study session each afternoon. Enforce appropriate bedtimes for younger students, to ensure they get enough sleep. Consider placing a whiteboard or chalkboard in the kitchen or mudroom that outlines the day’s schedule, so every family member knows what to expect and, remember, make time for diner together. Visit potentialmagazine.com to find advice on gracefully declining. According to WebMD, 75-90 % of all doctor’s office visits are for stress-related ailments and complaints, that can lead to health issues like headaches, high blood pressure, heart problems, diabetes, skin conditions, arthritis, depression and anxiety. Create a Schedule Whether you use a paper planner or a smart phone app, take five minutes each day to add events and deadlines to your calendar and to review the items already there. On Sunday evenings, take a look at the week ahead so you don’t get surprised. If using an app, take advantage of the alert and reminder functions. You’ll be better able to stick to your routine and avoid schedule conflicts. It’s also helpful to work from a daily to-do list that you keep handy, so you can refer to it often. Plan ahead and put all important school calendar dates on your and your family members’ calendars. ­ —Cheri Love, mother of 4 Look out for our upcoming College Organizer—containing everything you need to know about getting into and paying for college. All Together You can put your plan in motion, but the entire family has to be on board to keep it going. Encourage your spouse and kids to use a calendar and daily to-do lists too. We have one big paper calendar with everyone’s schedule posted in the kitchen so everyone can see it. — Jennifer Chambliss, mother of 5 Have a “school supply” drawer in a common area to stash extra pens, paper, glue-sticks, pencils, etc. Go ahead and stock up now while items are at “back to school” sale prices. sup ply TIP —Cheri Love, mother of 4 www.potentialmagazine.com PHOTOGR APHY BY ERIKA TR ACY 27