Parvati Magazine December 2013 - Remembrance | Page 28

COMMUNITY COMMUNITY MONKEE SEE Monkee Do been able to deal gracefully with difficult disagreements such as religion or politics, and has come together time and time again to help others in need. This has culminated in a non-profit organization called “Monkee See - Monkee Do: Sharing Our Gifts to Bring Healing, Hope and Wholeness”. Melton writes, that giving is as much for the giver as it is for the receiver. When they added up all of their little offerings of time, money, and talent, together they could make amazing things happen. Things they never could have done alone. This created a deep sense of belonging to one another. A whole community of women were telling their truth and working hard to understand one another. People who were very different, but who had the common goal of understanding and loving each other better. Quite unexpectedly, they felt so deeply connected it filled them up. And once women fill up, they tend to spill out and overflow. They wanted other women to join them and feel better too. So they reached out to a couple of hurting women who needed help. What they found was that helping these women further healed their own broken hearts. And they began to believe what they had been taught as young girls, “Love wins.” “We can do hard things.” Y ou may remember that two issues ago in Parvati Magazine, I reviewed Glennon Doyle Melton’s book “Carry On, Warrior”, a book exploring the courage to let down one’s guard and be fully present and honest about where we are at. The message of the book has resonated with so many that a thriving online community has grown up at Melton’s website momastery.com. The name was chosen to represent the intense spiritual work of motherhood or of simply being present in life. Through the commitment to be kind and brave with each other, the community has Monkee See – Monkee Do is the natural outpouring generated by these women’s small efforts. It’s a helping, healing revolution. Recently, Monkee See - Monkee Do launched a campaign to meet as many expressed needs as possible for the holidays. The community rallied to fill over 600 needs so quickly that on the day the campaign launched, many community members hurried home from work to pitch in their share, only to learn that everything had already been covered in astonishing speed. Through this work, many struggling parents are helped to give a Christmas to their families, clothe their children for winter, or simply brighten someone’s day a little. The organization has also held “Love Flash Mobs” in which funds have been raised for major items such as wheelchair accessible vans - all with a maximum individual donation of $25. Two of the mottos of the Momastery community are “Love Wins” and “We Can Do Hard Things”. We see both of these coming true through the work of “Monkee See - Monkee Do”, reminding us to remember our communities and our neighbors, making sure that no one is forgotten from love and care. Pranada Devi is a communications professional living in Toronto, Canada. She is the Managing Editor of Parvati Magazine, and serves as an advisor on marketing communications for Parvati’s various projects. Recently, she edited Parvati’s new book “Confessions of a Former Yoga Junkie”, which has gone on to sell out its first printing run.