Parker County Today March 2016 | Page 89

involved with family without exerting special effort. However, without a law enforcement background, I may not have the insight I needed to become a Professor of Criminal Justice. Therefore, I would say, if one wants a career as a professor of criminal justice, I would advise a common path as a law enforcement officer simply because relating personal experiences to the words in a textbook offers a special value to those aspiring toward a career in criminal justice. Q: What do you do to chill? A: Even at the age of 67, I find little time to chill. However, whatever time I set aside is typically with my family or a specific family member. My “personal time” rests with my artistic, creative side as a sculptor. Q: If you could visit any place in the world, where would you go? A: I have always fostered the desire to travel the world with no one place beckoning more than the other, but if I had to choose, my first place would be Australia. Q: Who is the one person you’d like to meet? A: My next friend. Q: If someone asked you to give them your best piece of advice, what would you say? A: I have two philosophies in life. My first one is based on what an old salty sergeant told me during my time in Vietnam. I told him I was afraid of dying in the jungles of Vietnam and asked him what I could do to ensure my survival. His answer has remained in my heart as a primary philosophy in life. He said, “See Corporal Johnson over there (pointing to a nearby Marine). I nodded, yes. He continued. “Well I cover his butt in battle. Johnson then covers PFC Smith, and then Smith another until they get back to me. The bottom line is we have to worry about protecting each other out here instead of worrying about our own life. With everyone’s butt covered, we will survive.” My next philosophy is based on an old movie called, Cannonball Run, which is a comedy about a road rally across the U.S. As the race starts, a driver jumps in his sports car where his navigator already awaits and the first thing he does is grab the rearview mirror and tosses it out onto the roadway as he speeds away to take the lead. His navigator asks, “Why would you throw away your rearview mirror?” The driver looked at the navigator and stated, flippantly, “What is behind me is of n o concern.” Even though this philosophy stems from a comedy, one must admit the words ring true. Q: What’s your favorite hobby? A: Scuba diving with my family Q: What is the one thing that makes you happy? A: Seeing a smile on my granddaughter’s face … no, just seeing my granddaughter. Q: What makes you really sad? A: Many things, unfortunately, but primarily being away from my family. However, the present turmoil in our country and the world truly sadden me because it appears my children and grandchildren are facing formidable challenges against their inalienable rights. Q: What scares you? A: I have done so many things in life that force one to face and conquer fear, but I would have to say my biggest fear is not being able to protect my loved ones. As I grow older and less capable of physical defense, this becomes a concern; along with the fact that my family is now spread out across our globe. I can only pray for their safety and hope that all I taught them will keep them safe from harm. Q: If you could go back in history, who is the one person you would like to meet? A: John Wayne Q: Who in your life has influenced you the most? How? A: I would say my wife has been my strongest influence because she challenged me to rise above the difficulties overwhelming me because of PTSD and TBI relating to my experiences in combat. She not only tried to understand the trigger mechanisms that cause PTSD and TBI issues, she researched and offered tools to empower me to move forward with my life in spite of the seemingly overwhelming issues. Because of Cindy, I wrote my first book, which served as my mechanism of release from the bondage from PTSD/TBI and turn those horrors into a publication that has served to help others move forward as well. Cindy also inspired me to accept new challenges such as moving from law enforcement to a career change toward education as well as continuing that effort to include a career in higher education. Q: What would you most like to be remembered for? A: Empowering others to free themselves from any form of oppression. ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ Deborah Kernan Q: What is your favorite book? A: Atlas Shrugged, by Ayn Rand. My husband suggested it while we were dating, said the main character, Dagney, reminded him of me. PA R K E R C O U N T Y T O D AY Q: What do you do?  A: I am a mom of two, a wife, a lawyer, a business owner, a friend, a teacher, a daughter, a sister and an aunt. But what I do for a living is: I am a lawyer and have my law office in Weatherford. I have practiced here in Parker County almost 20 years. MARCH 2016 Lawyer 87