Parker County Today July 2018 | Page 6

A Letter From The Editor When The Fairy Tales Shatter M y sweet uncle Roy was the ulti- mate Marilyn Monroe fan. He was heart-broken when she died. He talked about it for the rest of his life. The mild-mannered barber felt terribly sorry for the movie idol who was nick- named “Goddess.” For years, he kept the newspaper from that day, Aug. 6, 1962. The headline read, “Marilyn Monroe Kills Self.” Maybe that’s when suicide became glamorous.  I’ve always thought that Monroe’s death changed the way Americans viewed suicide, a tragedy, horribly sad, but it was also viewed as haunting and mysterious. No one knows for certain if Monroe committed suicide or if she simply took too many pills. There’s also a plethora of murder conspiracy theo- ries that abound, but mostly the suicide theory dominates. Had she lived to be 90, then died of a stroke, I doubt that Monroe would have retained the mystique that she’s held on to through the years since her untimely death. I doubt that Andy Warhol would have painted her like- ness, Elton John and Bernie Taupin would not have written Candle in the Wind, nor would a ton of bio-pics been made about her.  There have been a number of historic celebrity suicides since, but few have had quite the impact of Monroe’s. Personally, for many reasons, I wish she’d just managed to call someone who could have talked her through it all. Mostly because I think that the view of suicide changed with Monroe, and since her death, suicide has been viewed as a dramatic way out to some — especially the younger and more impressionable members of society. Fast forward to this June when the news broke that fashion designer Kate Spade ended her life. Spade had been beautiful, successful and loved. The most puzzling part about Spade’s suicide was the fact that she left behind a 13-year-old daughter. The big question when reading about her suicide was, “Why?” But then, isn’t that always the question?  The CDC has released a new report, which found that suicide rates are on the rise across the country, clas- sifying suicide as one of the leading causes of death in the United States. Since 1999, suicide rates have increased by 30 percent in more than half of the US states, several of which saw increases much steeper — in North Dakota, the suicide rate rose by 57.6 percent. In 2016, the CDC reports, nearly 45,000 Americans lost their lives to suicide, and more than half of that number