Cancer and Love:
Love Until It Hurts
“There is nothing more important to me as
a physician than your cancer treatment.
I’ve been in practice for nearly two decades
and have had the privilege of telling many
patients that there is life beyond cancer.
As president of The Center for Cancer
and Blood Disorders, I want to lead by
example, practicing a firm belief
that all patients should receive the finest medical
care available, with the same concern and
compassion as a cherished
member of the family.”
Ray Page, D.O., Ph.D.
President and Medical Oncologist
The Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders
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It is often said that one of the first places cancer
spreads is to the loved ones. Even in the most
solid and committed relationships a diagnosis of
cancer can create substantial challenges.
People with cancer can often feel alone and not
understood while at the same time, the spouses
can feel helpless and unsure of what to say and
do.
Just getting through normal day to day life, even
with a great partner, can be difficult with many
hurdles. Then, all of a sudden, cancer enters the
picture and now life is turned upside down, and
even threatened. Stress, from all fronts, can be
insurmountable and communication can become
strained.
Cancer and its treatment can result in
substantial physical changes. Deformity and
permanent changes can occur which can impact
basic functionality, including taste, swallowing,
breathing, ambulation, and bowel/bladder function.
Patients can further be impacted by significant
psychological changes. The uncertainty of cancer
itself lends to anxiety and stress. Furthermore,
cancer treatments can often impact endocrine and
hormone changes that can change personality and
behavior. Sexuality, which is intimately tied to
emotional and physical well being, is a very
common problem that can seriously challenge a
personal relationship.
Over my many years of practice I have seen
some couples separate and leave in the worst of
times. However, many stay strong and make the
best outcomes out of a difficult situation.
Most notably, I have commonly seen love be
strengthened through the journey with cancer.
I wanted to name names of amazing “cancer
couples” who have inspired me over the years with
the true resolve of living in unconditional love, day
after day. You know who you are!
Most importantly, I want you to know that
many couples navigate cancer and its treatment
well. Certainly, in all relationships during stressful
times, there will be ups and downs. I am proud to
say that The Center offers psychological
counseling, a social worker, financial counseling,
and clergy support to assist our patients through
troubling times.
Love is life. Without it, you have not lived.
“I have found the paradox, that if you love until it
hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.”
- Mother Teresa
To learn more about cancer care issues or to
consult with a physician about a cancer diagnosis,
contact us at 817.596.0637.