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Update: The phone calls began to pour in to the office of Parker County Today magazine a little before 7 a.m. Thursday, Jan. 20, 2011. It was the morning after Jack Borden passed and phone calls were already spreading. People called wanting to know if the rumors were true. “Surely not,” one lifelong resident said. What everyone really wanted to hear was, “No. Of course it’s not true. We talked to Jack just this morning and he’s doing great.” But, it was true, as true as it was heartbreaking. Everyone expressed shock at the news. Jack would have loved it. He was 102 and everyone was shocked that he had died. There was just something about Jack that made people forget that he was 102. He never wanted to retire and in the end, he never did. “If I went home and started sitting around, I wouldn’t last through the year,” Jack said. “My work is what keeps me alive.” Jack was named Texas’ Outstanding Older Worker of the Year in 2008, then, in 2009, was named America’s Outstanding Oldest Worker. He traveled to Washington, D.C., to accept his award. An Inspiration To His Community When Jack turned 100, almost the entire town of Weatherford turned out for a party at the Posse Club given by Jamie Bodiford Brinkley. They came back again for his 101st and then his 102nd. In late January of 2011, Jack arrived at his law office as usual one Monday morning. He saw a couple of clients. Then, he began to have breathing issues and John insisted that he go to the hospital. Jack was in good spirits. He told friends he expected to be home by Friday. Doctors attempted to remove fluid from his lungs with medication. When that wasn’t successful, they attempted a procedure to drain the fluids from his lungs. Two days later he died. John Westhoff, Jack’s beloved nephew, was by his side. “Jack and his wife Edith never had children, but they considered most of Parker County to be members of their family,” C.B. Borden, Jack’s younger brother, said. When asked how she was doing a day after Jack died, his longtime, faithful nurse and companion Rose Stovall Paige said, “I have comfort in knowing I had the honor to take care of Jack Borden. And what a great honor that was.” “Jack was a great man,” said C.B., Jack’s last surviving sibling, who was 100 years old when Jack died. “He had a great life. He liked people. John said once that Jack had given away at least $1 million worth of law work. People would come by and see him. They’d say, ‘By the way, while I’m here, would you mind taking a look at this contract for me?’ And Jack would.” A Community Bids Farewell The spacious First Baptist Church of Weatherford had a standing-roomonly crowd for Jack’s funeral. The only thing that would have made it all better would have been for Jack to be able to attend that one last event in his honor, for him to hear the countless stories and eloquent tributes to him. Jack would have enjoyed the great irony of it all, how the entire community was shocked that Jack Borden, the 102-year-old attorney, who was still the toast of the town, was able to shock everyone with his untimely death at the age of 102. “Jack’s life, while now part of the tradition, history and past of Parker County, is alive and well in the present and lives in the lessons he taught,” John said. “Those lessons will also be reflected in the conduct and actions of others in the future. It is life examples such as that of Jack Borden that has made Parker County, Texas, and this country strong, now and in the future.” Over the years, John got a lot of advice from his uncle. What was the best? “Be committed, be prepared, be responsible and be relentless,” he said. The foundation that Jack set when he began to build the law firm was a strong one, and largely because of that it continues to thrive. A bright young lawyer joined the firm of Borden & Westhoff last year and now John Westhoff, who was once Jack’s protégé, has a protégé. DECEMBER 2015 PA R K E R C O U N T Y T O D AY wife. We were best friends,” Jack says. “Edith was the smartest and most remarkable woman I have ever known.” Fondly remembered for her intelligence and devotion to Jack and to Parker County, she earned her law degree without attending law school. A gifted artist, she also was instrumental in pre serving Parker County history. Sadly, Edith was an invalid for seven years before she died. Jack said he prayed every day that God would let him live long enough to take care of her. And he did. The century mark During a 2005 hospital stay for a serious bout with pneumonia, Jack saw vivid images while in a delusional state. He remembers walking up to a door and hearing voices from the other side. They told me to go back down. They weren’t ready for me yet,” he says. Jack says that’s when he started getting better. A few months later, the Weatherford Chamber of Commerce recognized Jack as Citizen of the Year. “So many people told me I should have received it years before,” Jack said, “but I told them I held out for bragging rights. How many people can say they were Citizen of the Year at 95 or 96?” Jack’s answer to those who ask for his secret to a long life is simple. “I know the good Lord has the say on when you’re gonna die and when you’re not,” he said. “And I don’t know why He has let me live as long as He has … but I’ve always hoped I’m ready to meet my maker when I do die.” Jack doesn’t know if he’ll hit the century mark, but the man who sells him his wardrobe promised him a free suit of clothes when he does. In his signature good humor, Jack laughs. “If nothing else, I’m living to get my free suit.” __________________________ 65