Parker County Today December 2015 | Page 23

FROM JANUARY 2014 Don Allen What Drives Him? SPONSORED BY EXCELER STORY BY MARSHA BROWN PHOTO BY MEGAN PARKS Don Allen is a study in contradictions. He’s a high-profile member of Parker County’s business community and almost everyone here is acquainted with him on some level, but very few actually know him all that well. He’s a man of mystery, who happens to be honest to a fault and never sugarcoats anything. It was late fall when I interviewed Don, but outside it felt like late spring and the sunshine was overwhelmingly bright while lights in Don’s office were turned out. The Beach Boy’s played softly. Pet Sounds? Don’s office was furnished in a mid-20th century Cattle Baron motif, handsome but with functional, sturdy furnishings, with no frills and no nonsense — a little like the man himself. When I had requested the interview, I was halfexpecting him to decline, but he didn’t. “What are we going to talk about?” Don said from behind his massive desk. “What do you want to talk about?” I said, “What is the most interesting thing about Don Allen?” He laughed. Then after a few seconds said, “My sense of humor. A lot of people understand my sense of humor, but some don’t. I like to think that most do. I guess that’s my best trait — a dry sense of humor.” Saying It Out Loud Don’s Drive “We’ve been good friends for 35 years,” Mac Smith said. “Don has always been a workaholic. He’s not the most sociable guy you’ll ever meet. He’s about 75 percent reclusive. But he is one of the most intuitive, down-toearth sensible guys.” How Don has navigated through his career route is almost as interesting as Don himself. “I was unemployed,” Don said. “Back in the ’60s they had employment agencies where you could go and pay them and they’d find you a job.” Don’s agency sent him to Jack Williams Chevrolet as a service cashier. “I told them I really do want this job. I hounded them for about three days,” Don said. “I was a lot nicer back then. They hired me and that was my entry into the car business.” Don loved the business instantly, and he loved his job. DECEMBER 2015 PA R K E R C O U N T Y T O D AY Then he said it. He used that word, that obscene, unspeakable word without flinching. “Do you want to talk about my cancer?” How do I answer that? I’ve known Don Allen since I was a kid, and he’s always been a hero to me. The truth was I really didn’t want to talk about Don’s cancer. What I really wanted was for Don to not have cancer. “We can talk about your cancer if you want to,” I answered. “We can talk about anything you want to talk about because you are Don Allen.” Don cocked his head, smiled his great, insightful halfsmile and then he told me his story. “Well, I went in February of 2012,” Don said. “I already knew I had a problem, so we did surgery. Then in April I went and met with my oncologist. He said I had Stage 4 colon cancer and it covered 60 percent of my liver.” The normal lifespan is 22 to 24 months, Don’s doctor informed him. “I thought, ’Well that isn’t good.’ My wife di dn’t like him at that time, the way that he presented the information,” Don said. “Since then we have developed a very good relationship, the three of us. I have been very fortunate. I have been doing this (chemo) for going on two years, and it has not made me sick. I have been able to work. Work is my refuge. I come back to work, just as quickly as I can.” The sheer love of his work is one of the most intriguing things about Don. Continued on page 75 22