Parker County Today Aug 2018 | Page 79

S itting across from Joel Rhodes, general manager of Drake’s Yoke, as he talks about his life, you will see a man who has hit bottom, only to fight his way back to the top again. Part of the restaurant industry for 18 years, Rhodes would be the first person to tell you that he loves to talk and that his love of gab is one of the reasons why he got into the industry. Well, that and his mom.  “My parents split when I was 13 and I spent a lot of time with my mom. I would do what she was doing, whether making tortillas or dropping off enchiladas at the local fire station or Craig’s Music, or doing what mom does. I spent time with her and realized that I was pretty decent at this. I didn’t get serious about cooking until I graduated from culinary school [at Auguste Escoffier School of Culinary Arts in Austin]. I went to school and slept on my cousin’s couch for 10 months while my wife and daughter were here, and drove back and forth on the week- ends. My wife was a big reason why I stayed down there, because I knew what she had sacrificed.” Rhodes has served in various capacities in the restaurant indus- try. He started as a teen as a host at Applebee’s. He eventually wanted to increase his cash flow, so he became a server. “I started doing some kitchen shifts, washing dishes and learning how to prep. I did that for a number of years. I opened Chili’s when it came around and opened Cotton Patch,” he said.  Rhodes went on to be the execu- tive chef of Copper Creek, and when it closed down he became the food service director at Northside Baptist Church.  During the majority of his adult life, and unknown to the people around him, Rhodes was battling an addiction that cost him years of his life, and a few run-ins with the law.  “I started drinking in high school here and there. I was never a big drinker, but I got to a point in my life where when I was drunk, I wanted to be sober, and when I was sober, I wanted to be drunk. For me, I became a functioning alcoholic.