Parent Teacher Magazine Gaston County Schools Jan/Feb 2019 | Page 5

HT FUTURE In 2019, Rethink and Reframe Your New Year’s Resolutions T N COUNTY FAMILY YMCA Along with singing “Auld Lang Syne” at the start of the New Year, making resolutions is a tradition for millions of Americans. However, while choosing a resolution can be easy, sticking to them is hard. A YMCA survey found that less than a quarter of respondents kept their resolutions. Many (71 percent) tried, but stated that they fell short of their goals, while 40 percent confessed that gave up within the first few months, even weeks, of the New Year! While there is no “right way” to keep a resolution, the Gaston County Family YMCA, is encouraging community members to give their New Year’s resolutions a boost by: n Start small. Break those big resolutions into small, achievable goals. “’Getting healthy’ is too broad so reframe that big resolution into smaller, more manageable goals. Instead of cutting chocolate out of your diet for good, vow to only have it a few times a week. Or trade your two sodas a day for one soda and a glass of water. n Take it one step at a time. Trying to change too many habits at once can easily lead to frustration. Instead of a New Year’s resolution, make a new month resolution. Focus on that one change for the month and add another (small) change when the new month rolls around. n Keep the faith. Don’t get discouraged by setbacks. Even though you may experience some missteps throughout the day—or even the week—that doesn’t mean you have to give up. Bad habits aren’t created in a week, so try as you might, you can’t change them in a week either. n It’s all about attitude. It’s important to think about what you’re gaining from a resolution rather than what you’re missing. This can make a resolution feel more positive, and therefore more achievable. For example, you may want to limit your screen time in 2019, but that can be more manageable if you replace it with something positive like volunteering or setting special time aside for family. n Talk it out. It’s easier to stick to your resolutions if you have a partner or friend working toward similar goals. Team up with someone to set your 2019 goals and help each other establish a game plan dedicated to achieving them. Set specific check-ins to help each other out of slumps and to cheer each other during the high points. “Changing behaviors is a tough task even for the most dedicated and motivated people,” said Josey Messer, Associate Executive Director, Stowe Family YMCA. “The new year is a great time to make changes, The but it’s important to After YMCA offers remember that any change takes time, and the type of resolution you make plays is a huge factor in your success.” Cost: Sc • School-based sites*: Additionally, many people join a gym or other health facility to help $48/week for members keep their resolutions. Just as making your resolutions manageable • join YMCA pick-up contributes to success, the type of place you is important as sites*: well. Make sure the facility you pick is the right $58/week fit. for members * Schools listed in BOLD indicate D “While we’d love everyone to join the Y, when it comes to adding healthy behaviors like increasing physical activity, it’s important Year Round Registration to find a facility where you feel comfortable, but also keeps you You have the option to registe motivated,” added Messer. “Before committing to a membership, Summer take a tour of local gyms to find the best fit and for 2014 you. Your facility Camp. The w should not be just a gym, but an environment that Note: offers more Please registration for t health, more hope and more opportunity.” See the list below to determ For additional tips or to learn how to get involved with the Gaston gastonymca.org or 704-865 County Family YMCA, visit gastonymca.org. About the Y The Y is one of the nation’s leading nonprofits strengthening School-based sites: communities through youth development, healthy living and social responsibility. Across the U.S., 2,700 Ys engage Brookside 22 million men, women and children – regardless of age, income Carr or background – to nurture the potential of children and teens, improve the nation’s Park health and well-being, and provide opportunities Gardner to give back and Sherwood support neighbors. Anchored in more than 10,000 communities, the Y has the long-standing relationships and physical presence not just to * Schools listed in BOLD indicate D promise, but to deliver, lasting personal and social change. ymca.net School-based sites: Cherryville School-based sites: New Hope Robinson School-based sites: Belmont Central Lowell Parent Teacher Magazine• Janaury/February 2019 • 3 Page Primary Pinewood