Remember the judge is a generation or kind of person that lives a life style that could be very different from your own. This change does not have to be for always but if it aids in upping your chances to win your case.. well its worth thinking about isn't?
A good hair cut and clean shaven is best. If you must keep facial hair give it a good tidy trim. Have long hair cut or ensure it is tied back. No earrings. Shirt and tie can be picked up second hand.
Dress for success.
Always speak loud and clearly.
You are doing this for your children and they are worth the effort!
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