Pageant Platform Magazine May June 2019 issue pageant platform magazine may june | Page 10

My Tip is to choose something that you are passionate about. It may take time and it may not come to you right away and that’s okay. Sometimes we must change our platform and that’s okay too. : Competing in pageants has increased my self-confidence tremendously. It’s really taking me out of my comfort zone. It’s helped me increase my abilities to speak in public as well as my interviewing skills. I was a very shy person until I started pageants. I didn’t even have a Facebook profile. I think it’s really gotten me out of my comfort zone and made me realize that I was limiting myself. Competing helps people build up their self-esteem to realize that not everybody can be the winner. Everybody competes is a winner if they learn from the experience but only one person walks away with the Crown. at my first pageant I was having shoe issues, my shoes fit great when I left South Carolina but when I got to California and rehearsing my shoes were slipping off. We fixed it with butt glue. I had no idea that there was something called butt glue and just for people who don’t know what it is, it’s used in swimsuit competition to keep your bathing suit from riding up your backside. I had no clue what that was when she handed it to me, I almost fell over with laughter. And that’s a great tip because I would have never thought to use it for your shoes slipping and it’s good to know that it can be used for that. : First, find a platform or charity that you’re passionate about that is key because you’re going to be working with these organizations and supporting them. You want to make sure that you really have a passion for what you’re doing. Second, believe in yourself and go after your dreams. At age 47 I competed in my first pageant: I went after my dreams because it was on my bucket list. And Lastly, it’s about your comfort zone and try new things and you never know what you’re going to be passionate about unless you step out of your comfort zone. Competing is the first step in that process, to get you out of your comfort zone. Be yourself, have fun and give it your all when you compete, whether you win or lose, it doesn’t matter. You’re a winner for even going out there and competing.