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S P E C I A L F E AT U R E S Wedding outfits Everyone wants to look beautiful on their wedding day but you don’t need to bankrupt yourself in the process. If your budget is very tight, you can easily hire a dress/outfit from a local shop (look in the Yellow Pages for information on this). There will be a wide variety of choices, from the more traditional styles to those with a modern or funky twist, with a pleasant price tag attached! If you are only going to wear it one day in your life, why spend a fortune on it? Alternatively, hit the high street in search of a bargain. Shops like Monsoon and Debenhams have beautiful gowns/suits to buy from as little as £100, with matching accessories to boot. If you opt for a ‘ballgown’ design, you can always wear it on other smart occasions, thereby getting even more use out of it. Finally, for those of you with a conscience, check out Oxfam’s wedding departments. Some of the bigger charity shops have a dedicated section where you might find the dress/outfit of your dreams at a fraction of the first price. Not only will you look amazing on your wedding day but you can feel good that your choice has benefited someone in need. Food The cheapest catering option is to provide your own food (if you are hiring a hall: restaurants, hotels and pubs might insist that you use their catering facilities if you hire a room with them). A finger buffet can be the cheapest and easiest option. If you can stretch your budget more, you can order sandwich platters from supermarkets or from local delicatessens. Some supermarkets do wedding cakes at vastly lower costs than those charged by a cake maker. Alternatively, see if you have a relative who is good at baking to come up with something! www.oxfordshire.gov.uk/registration Drink Buying in bulk is the most cost-effective option. Wine merchants and supermarkets often offer good discounts on bulk buys, while some places also offer a glass-hire service, the cost of which is sometimes refunded if you return the glasses clean and undamaged at the end. Cava is a great alternative to champagne, at a fraction of the price. Ceremony If you want a small wedding (yourselves plus two witnesses) and a short ceremony, you are able to marry in a register office for the statutory fee. This is only available on certain days and times of the week. Reception There are various ways of holding a good reception. You could hire out a room (or several) in a hotel, and ask them to cater the event for you. Church and village halls can be hired fairly cheaply, though you will need to check in advance if a special licence will be needed for serving alcohol. Additionally, local pubs and restaurants often hire out rooms for celebrations, so look around and see what suits you best. Transport If you want to ride in something unusual on your big day but your budget is too tight, why not ask family and friends to see if they can provide a car (or at least drive you in theirs)? It is highly likely that someone has a smart sports car or vintage vehicle that you can borrow. If not, have some fun decorating your own car, as Pete did. “We didn’t want to spend a fortune on a horse-drawn carriage or limo so we bought some ribbon and balloons and decorated the car with those. Our friends ‘helped’ us a little when we drove away from the ceremony to the reception by adding pots and pans and shaving foam that said, ‘Just married’ on the back windscreen. I don’t think a hire car would have allowed that! It was nice having our car as part of our wedding day; it made it more personal.” 47