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Wedding Music
Music is another wonderful way to personalise
your wedding. Traditional musical pieces are
often chosen above modern alternatives
because many of them were written with the
marriage ceremony in mind. And just because
you are having a civil wedding, it does not mean
you cannot have something traditional in your
music choices! However, modern songs, from
pop to folk to jazz, can offer a refreshing change
and might express your feelings even more
appropriately. The choice really is yours, but
just remember that songs must not contain any
religious content.
It is always a good idea to assign someone to
operate the music system, so that the music
can be faded out subtly as you reach the front
of the room, and to ensure all the levels are
correct.
Please note, re-readable CDs often don’t play
well on different CD players, so it is a good idea
to provide or back up your music on yours or a
friend’s Smartphone or other i-device.
All our Registration Office music systems offer
either an i-pod docking station or auxiliary
cable.
As a general rule of thumb, it is good to have five
or six songs to play while your guests take their
seats. As these are purely for background, they
can also be repeated should any delays occur.
Wedding Chats
If you have chosen to marry in an approved
wedding venue, such as a hotel or stately
home, your fee includes the option to meet
with the Registrar who will be conducting
your ceremony. Wedding staffing is usually
confirmed four weeks prior to your big day.
This meeting will usually take place at the
local Register Office which looks after your
chosen venue.
In Oxfordshire we are delighted to offer
ceremony chats for those having approved
premise weddings and you can personalise
your ceremony. This is your day and we are
here to make it exactly as you wish.
www.oxfordshire.gov.uk/registration
If you wish to arrange a meeting, we would
recommend that you call the ceremony
helpdesk a month before your wedding
on 0345 241 2489
(Monday to Thursday 9.00am - 4.30pm,
Friday 9.00am - 4.00pm).
As Registrars have busy schedules,
particularly during the summer season,
please allow ample time when making your
appointment.
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