Oxfordshire Baby & Parenting Guide | Page 22

18 relearn to relate In all the excitement and chaos that comes with having kids and being a family, it is easy to forget how to be a couple. Marriage and family relationships experts Relate provide some top tips on how to make the most of each other. Making the change from being a couple to being parents isn’t always easy. It can be difficult to find time for yourselves, your sex life can change, you have to juggle the commitments of work and family and find a way of agreeing on how to bring up the children. However, there are steps you can take to make life easier and more enjoyable – for everyone. When you first bring your baby home and are learning how to be a family, try the following tips: Don’t keep it all to yourself. Talk to your partner and other parents – you’ll find that many are experiencing the same mixture of conflicting feelings. Work with your partner to support each other through it. Take turns with the baby. When it’s not your t