Our Maine Street's Aroostook Issue 9 : Summer 2011 | Page 39

What Matters: 40 Developmental Assets by Allison Heidorn Fair is Fair Photos by Beth Alden, Craig Cormier, Kim Jones & Rebecca Bowmaster When you look back at your life whatby Dan will you remember? Will it be the money you made, the cars you drove or will it be the times you skipped rocks with your children, laughed with a friend so hard it hurt, or comforted a neighbor in need? The reality is that life is defined by solitary moments that can’t be put into words, the relationships we build with those who walk in our hearts. Search Institute, a global leader in what youth need Ladner to become caring, healthy, and responsible adults, identified the importance of relationships. According to their research, there are 40 specific skills that contribute to thriving young people including Support, Empowerment, Positive Identity, and Positive Values. Search Institute termed the 40 skills, 40 Developmental Assets. Developmental Assets are about the little things that come from our hearts such as supporting a friend, volunteering and accepting differences in others. According to Search Institute, the more assets young people have