been more than three years since I wrote about my old lady,
hot air balloons, marching band dream. During that time,
I’ve fantasized about watching this story in a theater or on
television. I can see this so clearly that it’s almost as if it’s
already happened. Nevertheless, no matter how strong my
desire is, all I have is ink on paper as long as my script is held
hostage in the dark recesses of my file cabinet. But I wasn’t
prepared to be a dweller in the world of screenwriting. I
wasn’t even awake when the idea unfolded in front of me.
So where do I begin
making this dream a
reality? This question
of “Where do I
begin?” has repeatedly
gotten in the way
of
progress…until
recently.
About a year
ago, my dear friend
and colleague, Alli,
introduced me to
vision boards while
we were exploring
new ideas for Cary
Medical
Center’s
Ladies Land Cruise
and Healthy You
program. A vision
board, she explained,
is a tool people can
use to assess what
they really want and
help them focus on
achieving it. Jackpot! I plunged into learning all I could
about vision boards. What I discovered was both highly
inspirational and somewhat mysterious.
A visions board, also known as a dream board, vision
map, or treasure board, is a collage of images, pictures, and
words that represent your dreams and desires. The theory
is that by focusing on the things you want to accomplish
or acquire you start to attract those exact things into your
life. It’s a tool stemming from the “law of attraction”.
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Essentially, this ancient law states that you become what
you think about most.
(It is my opinion that applying lessons based on the
law of attraction does not replace any religious or cultural
beliefs. The Healthy You mission is to promote physical,
mental, social, and spiritual wellbeing. A vision board is
just one tool to help people focus on any or all of these four
levels of health; in harmony with one’s own principles.)
In my quest for knowledge on this subject, I
stumbled across a
movie called “The
Secret” and a book
of the same name by
Rhonda Byrne. Both
are based on the law of
attraction and claim
that positive thinking
leads to positive
results. While this
claim is considered
controversial largely
due to its lack of
scientific
evidence
and critics are quick
to point out that
there are sometimes
unavoidable
and
uncontrollable factors
that determine a
person’s circumstance,
I found that “The
Secret”
presented
some fascinating ideas,
including:
~ what you are thinking and feeling today is creating your
future;
~ when your instincts tell you an opportunity has presented
itself, it is your job to seize the moment;
~ visualize the future you want and take time to feel excited
about what you see;
~ have unwavering confidence that your dreams are
achievable;