Obiter Dicta Issue 3 - September 30, 2013 | Page 12

page 12 opinions A Little Sheep Told Me: A case against peer sabotage ANGIE SHEEP Arts & Culture Editor where down the road. Therefore, when you refuse a helpful hand (when it’s so easy for you to do so) or resort to sabotage, you are really holding yourself back. That person may end up losing a mark or two on this one exam, but you end up losing all your credibility and networks. In this issue I have decided to deviate from my usual fashion focus and speak to something that had concerned m e all last year and continues to do so this semester. This article therefore, will be more on the serious side but hopefully it’ll be more It Draws People In helpful and longer lasting in your brilliant minds than the usual clothIf you support and enable the people ing rant (though I’m sure that’s around you to achieve their goals, you extremely important to everyone become a common denominator to their as well!). The issue or perhaps the success. This attracts more peers who more appropriate word, problem, at want to be a part of your life and come Osgoode is the occurrence of saboto you for advice. This is what a leader tage. I’m not referring to the minor does. And, more immediately, do you jokes or friendly competition, but the really want to be the person who cannot deliberate attempt and intention to find a partner when a group project is jeopardize a peer’s path to success assigned? in an already difficult environment (I think criminal law has had more It Strengthens Relations of an effect of me than I thought). I To a certain extent, we all embody am not, however, suggesting that the some Type A personality practice of sabotage is runIT SEEMS THAT THE RESERVE traits. We like organization; ning rampant in Osgoode’s COPIES OF THE BUSINESS we like control. I’m challenghalls, but I believe it’s ASSOCIATIONS TEXTS HAVE ing you to lessen the grip existent and should not be FOUND THEIR WAY INTO THE on that control, especially in overlooked. Thus in this OBITER’S OFFICE. NOT GOOD, scenarios where you have to issue I will make a (hopeSAYS EDITOR ANGIE SHEEP. collaborate with your peers. fully convincing) case First of all, it becomes too against sabotage and for chaotic when everyone tries bringing out greatness in your peers and why to assert control over the rest of the group; you may want to do so. this results in wasted time and unwanted arguIt Expands Your Circle ments. Second, when you are so obsessed with being the “dominator”, you risk others feeling When you sabotage someone, you inevitably like they’re being used as instruments instead push people away and your peers are the last of equal partners. Too much control also stifles people you want to alienate. I’m sure you have individuality and creativity and prevents the lisheard the phrase “it’s not about what you know tening to each other that’s needed for a good but who you know” uttered numerous times. No mark, career, relationship, etc. And though you matter how skeptical you are of it, it’s true to may hate to admit it, someone else’s idea may be a greater extent than you’d expect. And since actually much more brilliant than yours. you don’t know now exactly who you may need help from in the future, expand your “who’s” You Are Already Great and behave as if you will need all of them some- advance with confidence Share our vision of what’s possible. At Gowlings, we help make your ambitions your realities. You’ll know where you’re going, and you’ll have the resources to get there ahead of the pack. To learn more about our student program, go to iwantgowlings.com monday - september 30 - 2013 Look at the opportunities you have. You are already a lot better than most of the human population. There exists people who would give anything to go to school (let alone law school); you have that and beyond. This may sound like a guilt trip or a “be thankful for what you have” rant but there is a reason why this notion comes up again and again; it lets you consider the big picture. Sometimes we become so absorbed in our studies and immediate circumstances that we lose perspective. To combat the itch of sabotage, it can be useful to take a moment to regain that objectiveness. Looking to the world helps you remember how insignificant some things may be to risk your reputation and friendships. Start Being A Great Leader Now When you think about whom you consider as “great” leaders or organizations (Martin Luther King? Google?), how many can you count? The number of great leaders remains to be quite small when considered in conjunction with our entire human history. What they do seems to always run counter to the rest of their peers or the industry standard, so why don’t you? Leaders inspire us and we respect and follow them because we want to; we believe in their cause. What is your cause when you refuse a helping hand or sabotage? And do you expect people to be persuaded by it? Why not change your objective to something that the majority of your peers will praise and follow? I believe most Ozzies want to study in an encouraging and sabotage-free environment. In order to realize this objective, it’s important to enable that atmosphere and give everyone a chance for greatness. Some of you may argue that law school is an inherently competitive environment so it is important to “get the upper hand” however you can. You may also say that the sabotaging is temporary and when you’ve “finally made it”, you will be the most supportive leader. To the first argument, I would like to ask you what kind of person and lawyer you aim to be; but perhaps this question is too ambiguous and far in the future to have a persuasive effect. I, therefore, put to you this: the success in something almost always depends on practice and if you repeatedly delay practicing the qualities of a great leader, how will you be a natural and inspiring one when the opportunity arrives? You don’t have to change your attitude and solution towards law school competition now, but do a little each day. You don’t have to go out of your way to help a peer, but when you can, give them a chance to be great. So when the real thing comes, you are ready for it. the obiter dicta