Oasis Magazine - Cairns & Tropical North Queensland Issue 22 - Feb|Mar 2018 | Page 13

P ineapple VILLAGE to my own daughter, Stella. At the tender age of 4, she is a sweet and sensitive soul, about to embark on her own school journey. Kylie Bean, founder of Pineapple Village shares her thoughts on bullying and her inspiration to instigate action. As I poured a morning coffee and flicked through my newsfeed recently, I saw a 14-year-old had taken her own life. It stopped me in my tracks. Dolly Everett had been bullied to a point where she could no longer see benefit in living. Thinking of the grief her family would be feeling, losing their daughter under such unfathomable circumstances, reduced me to tears. My thoughts drifted As an X-ennial - a child of the 80s and a teen of the 90s - schoolyard bullying was ever-present; however it came in more obvious forms. There was pushing, name calling and teasing; your standard mean girls and schoolyard bullies. But seeing current day stories of teenagers dealing with cyber-bullying makes me fear this age of technology and what’s in store for my daughter’s future. I wanted to do something - anything - to try to prevent this happening again. My mission was to create a Cairns-based online village to raise awareness about bullying: a place where people could feel safe, increase their confidence, share experiences with others and offer a shoulder to cry on. So far, I have shared tips on how to respond to cyber-bullies, contact details for some of Australia’s best counselling organisations and in coming weeks, I will be sharing information on social media account security, tips for parents, and peoples own accounts with bullying. I hope to create a library of practical information that people can use and share to inspire and educate others. Anyone who wishes to take a stand against bullying is invited to join our Pineapple Village! Search for @pinepplevillage on Facebook and Instagram. Stand tall, wear a crown, be sweet on the inside. Be a Pineapple. OPEN 5am - 10pm EVERYDAY CAIRNS SHOWGROUND DRIVE THRU Cairns Showground Shopping Centre, Cnr Mulgrave Rd & Buchan St zarraffas.com © Intellectual Plus Pty Ltd. All Rights Reserved, 2017. Trade marks used under licence. Issue 22 | 13