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nosh magazine 4 STEPS TO GUILT-FREE EATING Fiona Sutherland provides four simple steps to guilt-free eating. or many people, food and eating can be a great source of angst, especially when coupled with a desire to change their body shape or weight. F Making healthier changes to your lifestyle, whether that be incorporating regular exercise or eating more regularly through the day, can really help with your weight management. But, unfortunately such strategies don’t guarantee an achievement of a “goal weight” or “perfect size”. Now, this may be a difficult concept to embrace or accept, especially if you’ve been actively pursuing weight loss for a long time but, perhaps, the solution lies in being able to eat with less stress. Here are four tips to help you achieve “guilt-free eating”. STEP Let go of the food rules Every diet or weight loss plan comes with a set of rules that make you feel in control. The list of do, don’t, good, bad, right and wrong foods are often extensive and the bottom line is that most often these diets or “plans” are not actually designed for you. 1 It’s true that some people flourish when they are on diets that are low sugar or gluten-free (for example), but honestly, these people are in the vast minority and any sweeping statements that are made about particular styles of eating are certainly not applicable to everyone. The concept behind food rules is that they provide structure and direction but, in the real world, most people find them difficult to adhere to and, as such, end up eating in an “all-or-nothing” way. By this I mean, once you eat one thing that is off the list, you feel like you may as well eat another, then you start to think “well, I’ll just start again tomorrow” and the cycle of frustration begins. Many people fear that if they let go of food rules they will lose control and eat everything, but in my experience this is usually very short-lived or it doesn’t even happen at all. So what’s the alternative? STEP 2 It’s okay to relax, but still employ some eating guidelines My suggestion is that, instead of “rules” per se, you might have some guidelines and boundaries that are realistic and sustainable. For example, rather than cutting out certain foods, aim to incorporate them into your weekly diet in an intentional way and view them as just “part of my diet.” You might start off planning ahead to incorporate previously “banned” foods, but then move towards a more flexible place. By this I mean you might organise to meet a friend for coffee and cake, but then move towards deciding once you get there if you actually feel like the cake with your coffee. Then, if you do feel like it, take your time and enjoy it. Eat your food (especially your 3 favourites!) slowly and mindfully STEP Mindfulness, in one way or another, has been around since ancient times and mindful eating is one way you can engage Fiona Sutherland, APD Learn more about Fiona: website | profile Fiona is an Accredited Practising Dietitian, Sports Dietitian and Director and Co-Founder of Body Positive Australia, which promotes a healthy relationship the food, eating and the body. 8 www.n4foodandhealth.com with your food in a new and different way. Essentially, mindful eating is really about slowing down and really engaging all your senses in the eating experience. It’s nothing more complicated than that, but it does take some practice to master. Many people find it a new and wonderful experience and they discover that the foods they thought they loved, really aren’t that tasty, while others provide a more enjoyable experience than they expected. Slowing down can also help increase an awareness of appetite, which means you are more likely to stop eating when you’ve actually had enough. STEP Watch your language It seems to be socially acceptable (sometimes even encouraged), for groups of people to talk negatively about food, eating, die