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32 NEW JERSEY COPS ■ MAY 2014 A Supreme Sacrifice Remembering the loss of Orange Police Officer Joyce Carnegie in the line of duty on the 15th anniversary of her passing brings a feeling that all cops live for. And love. ■ BY MITCHELL KRUGEL Joe felt Joyce squeeze his hand as the ambulance rushed toward UMDNJ Hospital. “Girl, you better wake up,” Joe cried to his Orange Police Department colleague, partner on the street beat, and best friend since they entered the academy together four years earlier. Officer Joe Lane knew Joyce Carnegie could beat this. He saw the gunshot wound in her stomach, and he knew if anybody was tougher than a bullet, it was Joyce. Joe knew this better than anybody. They had always been described as brother and sister throughout the department, and their bond made Reed’s and Malloy’s or Sipowicz’s and Simone’s seem like distant cousins. “Wake your butt up,” he begged again. “I didn’t know she was shot in the head until we got her out of the ambulance,” Lane recalls about the evening of April 8, 1999. “She was tougher than any guy I knew. I thought she was still with us.” Lane couldn’t stay at the hospital. He left to help find the guy who did this to Joyce. They had responded earlier that evening with two other officers to the first call of the night of an incident on Main Street in Orange. Main Street was their turf. “Joyce kept the peace on Main,” noted Orange Lieutenant Tracey Wright. Nothing was happening on Main, but a call came over that a man was robbing victims on nearby Berkeley Road. Lane went one way toward Berkley to respond; Carnegie went another toward the intersection of Freeway Avenue and Bay Street. That’s where Joyce Carnegie ran into the suspect, Terrance Everett. That’s where her watch ended at 38 years old, just four years into the job. Lane confides that the heart of the Orange PD stopped beating on that night 15 years ago. Many other officers confirm that Carnegie was indeed the heartbeat of the department, and that’s why they take time every day since to keep her memory alive. To be sure, Joyce Carnegie personifies the paradox or conundrum of the Police Week that has just passed: cops always honor the trauma and drama that comes with every Line of Duty Death (LODD) and should be inspired by such an event to elevate their lives to the fullest. “Joyce taught us to take the time to say ‘I love you,’ and that we don’t have the time to carry anger,” said Wright who was a sergeant when Carnegie joined the force. “She had that balance.” Orange Officer Anthony Holmes also went to the academy with Carnegie. If Lane was her brother, she treated Holmes like a loveable little brother. He keeps pictures of Joyce throughout his house, and you might imagine why: “Her death made a big impact on our town,” Holmes explains. “Officers that didn’t like each other, all of the sudden, they bonded. She taught a lot of people to cherish every day. She will always be with me because of that.” May the circle be unbroken During the 18 weeks of the police academy, Lane, Carnegie, Holmes and another Orange officer, Karen Tisdale, united like family. “Our circle was tight and everybody knew it,” Holmes said proudly. They were so tight that Wright said most supervisors knew to assign Lane and Carnegie together whenever they went out on walking patrol. They were so tight that when Lane would get angry at work, Holmes said, “Joyce was the only person who could calm him down.” They were so tight that Tisdale, Holmes and Lane, like several other members of the department, knew Ernestine Carnegie like a second mother. Joyce’s mom worked for the city of Orange, and they are still so tight with her that they talk all the time. They were so tight that they all worked a side job doing security for The Vault, a store on Main Street. They were so tight that the afternoon she was shot, Carnegie bought Holmes a University of Michigan basketball warm-up suit because she loved the Wolverines and wanted her little brother to do likewise. They are still that tight to this day. Joyce had a rather prominent tattoo on her right forearm. When she passed, they all had her badge number – 48 – tattooed in the same spot. Herein brings us to another wonderful residual of Police Week’s marking of LODDs: The act of remembrance and honoring those who made the supreme sacrifice, and the events that it brings, creates a unification of police forces that inspires and enables cops to keep going back out there every day. “We always say,