Miriam : This is not just a party trick , because it really helps people get over the pain of losing a loved one , or unfinished business that they ’ ve had with people who have crossed over .
James : That ’ s right , exactly .
Miriam : One of the real core points that I took away from your book , was the difference or the opposition between fear and love . Can you expand on that ?
James : Sure . It goes back to my belief that we are souls having a human experience , not the other way around . I think that as souls our natural vibration or frequency is love , the energy of love . I think that ’ s what we ’ re made from . I think fear is very much a human concept evolved of the ego - “ Fear : false ego appearing real .” I think that life is a series of choices we made based upon two things , either love or fear .
A lot of people choose fear , whether they ’ re conscious of it or not , because they ’ re raised to want to please somebody , whether it ’ s our parents or society . We choose to behave a certain way , go into jobs , careers , relationships , based upon what other people think of us , or approve . So , we ’ re not living our true self , but if we do what we love to do , have a passion for , we ’ ll be very fulfilled because we ’ re coming from our natural vibration of love . Life is a series of choices . And , choices are based upon either love or fear .
Miriam : And , of course , the ultimate fear is the fear of death . And what you do as an evidential medium is really convince people that there is no death , or death is an illusion .
James : That ’ s exactly right . We know that there ’ s oxygen all around us , but we don ’ t see it . But , we use it to sustain our lives . We know that there are radio waves , all different types of frequencies and waves all around us . Here we are speaking on a radio , and people can hear from all over the world , but we don ’ t see our actual voices visibly in the airwaves , yet we know they exist . Same thing with the spiritual dimensions , and same thing with us .
A lot of people choose fear , whether they ’ re conscious of it or not , because they ’ re raised to want to please somebody , whether it ’ s our parents or society . We choose to behave a certain way , go into jobs , careers , relationships , based upon what other people think of us , or approve .