New Church Life September/October 2015 | Page 72

new church life: september/october 2015 “It is a balance between working with others and studying the doctrines – a constant tension between both. You are placed in every imaginable preaching situation – in small homes, large homes, coffee shops, old warehouses, and sometimes just leaning over the hood of a car. “People are so interesting and they want to make their lives better and depend on you to provide them with some spiritual food that they can digest or take home with them. It is an awesome responsibility and an honor. The other part is that you better have something they can use. You better have studied and be able to relate doctrine that is not in Swedenborg-speak. Nothing is more fun than giving a class and introducing concepts about heaven and hell that make it real and interesting!” When they got to Atlanta “I was told to ‘take it easy, get to know them, and don’t do any radical changes right away!’ They knew what I was like! Best advice I ever got! When you say you are the pastor of Atlanta that means you are the pastor of a group of people who all have desires, wants and needs. It is the people who make the church, so anything you do better work for more than half of the people and be doctrinally sound. If you alienate people then you can’t be their pastor. That sounds obvious but it took me a while to figure that out. He says he “feels good about what we have accomplished so far in Atlanta but I know we have a long way to go before we even begin to put a dent in growing our church. It seems that making a church work has hidden steps that need to be met before you can go to the next step. “Some are more obvious than others – like you have to be making enough money to keep the lights on and the lawn mowed. If you try to start a strategic plan before the basics are met it doesn’t work. I’m still discovering the ‘hidden steps’ but I am very hopeful and feel positive about our future here in Atlanta, and for the future of the New Church. Besides, the Lord said this will be the church of the future and He hasn’t been wrong yet!” Among personal interests, Calvin says a transformative experience was when he and Maggie went to Italy for two weeks. “It was really hard to come home!” They hope to travel more as the years go by. He loves his guitar and saltwater coral tanks, and recently has become “a closet Bonsai grower.” The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman still stands out as one of his favorites. And he says the Matrix series “should The Odhner children, left to right: Kale, Asher, Kelsie, Briggs, Brittany 504