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new church life: september/october 2015 human society for millennia,” the Chief Justice wrote. “Just who do we think we are?” “The Constitution itself says nothing about marriage,” he noted, and its decision is “not a legal judgment.” When four out of nine members of the court object so strenuously, how much confidence can we have in even the legal correctness of the decision? But the real issue is deeper than legal. As the Writings explain very clearly, in terms of discrete degrees, civil order comes from, contains and expresses the two higher degrees of order: spiritual and moral. Or should. (WEO) extending the benefits The way to extend the benefits of marriage to more people is not to redefine marriage, but to teach people what it truly is and why it is so valuable. Applying the word “marriage” more loosely does nothing to promote the reality of marriage, and in fact damages that effort. And the way to extend the blessings of the New Church to more people is not to stop teaching certain doctrines because they are out of step with the times, such as many of those in the book Conjugial Love, but to teach them more clearly and effectively. (WEO) i’m not a role model, but i play one on tv At the end of Bertolt Brecht’s play, Galileo, a former disciple turns bitterly on his fallen idol and laments, “Unhappy is the land that has no hero.” To which Galileo replies, “Unhappy is the land that needs a hero.” We seem always in search of heroes, but often are looking in the wrong places. That’s why F. Scott Fitzgerald, with a writer’s eye for the drama of life, once said: “Show me a hero and I’ll write you a tragedy.” We know the feeling. A popular hero for decades was comedian and actor Bill Cosby. In his long-running TV hit, The Cosby Show, and in countless appearances where he chastised young people to shape up their lives, he was the perfect role model for father, husband, family values. Now he has been exposed – although not convicted – as an apparent serial sexual abuser of women. One more “hero” fallen in shame from his pedestal. Sadly it is a story repeated throughout history – and throughout the Word. Consider David, the hero shepherd boy who slew Goliath with the “smooth stone” of the Lord’s truth, but as a grown man and leader made sure that the husband of the alluring Bathsheba would die in battle so that he could take her for himself. 540