New Church Life Sept/Oct 2013 | Page 16

new church life: september / october 2013 were to be an extension of the home; that parents and teachers would work closely together for the same purpose. It was a mutual, and mutually beneficial, relationship. The beliefs and values of a student’s family and home were confirmed and nurtured in the schools, and the work of the schools was supported and continued in the students’ homes. Both at home and at school the students found a shared faith and agreement on the purpose of life. In addition to beliefs and values, there needs to be a shared sphere that knits New Church homes and schools together: a sphere of charity and order; a sphere of respect for the things of religion and of marriage as understood and practiced in the New Church; a sphere of reverence and gratitude for the Word, including the internal sense as revealed in the Heavenly Doctrine. This is not to say things were perfect and that there were never any disturbances – we’re human, after all – but there has been agreement on what the sphere should be and on the truths that would enable the establishment of such a sphere. Young people, whose rational minds and moral character are not yet fully formed, are especially subject to disorderly influences, and our own New Church young people are no different. That is, they are not inherently different – but their youthful lack of judgment is tempered by the religious training and example they have received at home, and the fact that the administrators and teachers in New Church schools share those same beliefs and values. As a result, there is a sphere of relative innocence in New Church schools, even in the Secondary Schools and College, in comparison with the sphere that prevails on many campuses these days. As the world around us has shed the restraints of its religious traditions, college has become something far different from an “ivory tower.” Higher education today is a spiritual and moral minefield, and even physical safety is a concern on many campuses. Today, our schools can hardly avoid being somewhat affected by negative influences from the dying culture that surrounds them, but the difference between New Church schools and others is perhaps even more pronounced now than in the past, when there was a more orderly atmosphere on campuses generally. That difference is an important consideration when parents decide on which school they would like their children to attend, and to support with their gifts. (WEO) the life of choice There has been much speculation in the popular culture lately – and in New Church Life – about the eternity of the hells. Could a God who loves everyone really allow anyone to stay in hell forever? Isn’t there some hope of reform – 450