New Church Life Sep/Oct 2014 | Page 39

        (Truth) has lasting value to the extent that we fish from the right side: reaching out to those we know, seeking to serve them from love, respecting their free will, looking to the good in them, and seeking to inspire them to use that truth appropriately. we help people with the process, we don’t especially care whether they “pass the test,” and especially if they pass the test in the way we would. We focus on helping them move along the path toward the Lord, with their whole lives. Why do people change their character? It’s not because any of us says something brilliant or true. They change because they have, within themselves, a desire to change. So when we try to help people, the first point of contact needs to be with their heart, and then their head. Once they want to change, once we have connected with their heart, then they might be open to being guided by the truth. This does not mean that we love others in a mushy, vague sense. We need to be clear within ourselves that we are still fishing. We are serving others spiritually by helping bring them out of the water into the boat, just as those who love us do the same for us. We d