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n e w c h u r c h l i f e : m ay / j u n e 2 0 1 4 “Ms. Marcus wrote the ‘bygone’ rules such as not allowing members of the opposite sex in students’ dorm rooms are relics. Respectfully, they are not. I’m a freshman at Brigham Young University, and these relics are our rules, which I enjoy. These rules protect the dignity of each sex and also respect the powerful attraction between the genders. This attraction is perfectly acceptable and wholesome, except when it is misused. Intimacy is sacred, and I believe it should be reserved until marriage. “Does Ms. Marcus also consider this belief a relic? It is one of the most freeing truths I know. I respect her for recognizing the degradation of society, especially in sexual mores, but a secular culture provides no framework for sexual chastity. If physical immorality is not a sin, why should our physical passions be bridled? “Our culture is degraded, but sex wasn’t the start; it is only a symptom.” This young man may not speak for the majority of his generation. But because he dares to speak out for his beliefs, he gives us all hope. (BMH) ‘proof’ of heaven Dr. Eben Alexander, the neurosurgeon whose life and faith were dramatically transformed by a near death experience, was in Bryn Athyn on April 6 to talk to a crowd of 1,100 about his acclaimed best-seller, Proof of Heaven. His specific topic was: Religion and Spirituality in the 21st Century – How They Complement Modern Science. Here was a man who had been a confirmed scientist and confirmed skeptic about faith and spirituality – a lapsed churchgoer who did not believe in life after death. His science told him that matter – what we see and experience – is the core of reality; our thought and consciousness are just products of it. He considered himself the least likely candidate to be converted to profound belief in the soul and God and heaven. Several years ago he was stricken with a rare form of meningitis and fell into a seven-day coma that all but killed him. He revived with powerful memories of visiting the spiritual world and of an indescribable awareness there of unconditional love. He knew the part of his brain that could produce such images and memory had completely shut down, so these were not illusions. It had to be real. Much of it was beyond his ability to put into words – what Swedenborg calls “ineffable.” But he was profoundly affected by an “angel guide” who assured him that he was deeply loved and had nothing to fear. That was the central message of his book and his talk – that God’s love for us is constant and unconditional, and is a model for our own lives. 284