New Church Life Mar/Apr 2015 | Page 69

What the Word Says About Homosexuality The Rev. Willard L. D. Heinrichs S ome years ago I produced the following to help a couple explain to their friends outside of the New Church why they believed that homosexual practices are wrong and are contrary to the teaching of Scripture and to God’s order in creation. Since these friends would not be accessing the Heavenly Doctrine, I tried to explain the matter just from the letter of the Word, except for a reference to Conjugial Love. I acknowledge that this document is in no way complete or perfect. But I wonder if this general approach might be of use in talking to friends outside of the Church. Also I wonder if it might be useful with young people in the New Church who may be unfamiliar with the teachings in the Heavenly Doctrine, but might be affected by the powerful teachings from the letter of the Word. I am just suggesting one more possible approach for some of our hurting young people. In general, I think we might put our greatest effort into inviting people to begin from as broad a view as possible of what the Lord intends in relation to marriage. We need to note especially what the Lord has directly taught in His Word, rather than be guided in any way by the poor example of how people in the stories of Scripture too often responded to His teaching.  Further, I think we need to stress why the Lord said what He did. Among other things, from His infinitely merciful and eternally wise perspective, He tells us not to try to form same-sex marriage or sexual relationships because they are not in agreement with the way He created us! People of the same sex do not fit together as to their souls, and were never intended to, any better than they do as to their bodies. Consider Conjugial Love 55:6: There is a love of man and man, and of woman and woman; and there is a love of a man for a woman and of a woman for a man. These three pairs of loves are entirely different from each other. The love of a man and man is as the love of understanding and understanding; for man was created and thence born that he may become understanding. 179