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      power and its beauty. Even today, poets are the rocks stars of the Arab world. The Arab culture may appear “weird” to the West, because it is not our W.E.I.R.D., but it is how they live and think. In Day Four Greg compared American and Arab values: what motivates people, how they think, and what their priorities are: Americans Middle East Individualism Group loyalty Self-reliance Cooperation Mobility Sticking together Equality/Impartiality Status/Favoritism Hard work/material gain Birthright/Status Religion/personal choice Religion/Group label Control our own lives Fatalism Nuclear family Extended family Youth veneration Age veneration Direct resolution of conflict Intermediaries/indirect resolution Confrontation/assertive Harmony Objective/logical/linear Subjective/personal/relationships Guilt avoidance Shame avoidance These factors are at the root of the challenges in understanding each other’s cultures and building productive, trustworthy relationships. Greg concluded by mentioning three things to keep in mind during any human encounter – especially cross-cultural encounters: • Know yourself • Open-mindedness • Empathy (Contact: [email protected]) The Rev. Jeremy F. Simons Blueprint for Success The subheading for this series was: “What is our strategy for the future of the Church? Is it working?” (Jeremy provided extensive, detailed handouts for each session, including such supplementary handouts as: The Principles of the Academy, 1899, Brief Form; Swedenborgian Influence in 19th Century America; and The State of the Christian World – According to the Heavenly Doctrines. If you would like copies contact: Jeremy. 147