Natural Muscle May 2015 | Page 45

he passed, “Steph promise me this, NEVER, ever have to depend on a man for anything, get your education, make your own money, and learn to change your own tires and oil.” And you can say thus far I’ve kept my end of our deal. FEMALE: The women in my family are remarkable, strong, independent women. I admired my grandmother growing up and especially when I became an adult and more so when I became a mother myself. Her strength was out of this world. I thought she was made of steal. I’m not talking about physical strength, although she could do ranch work like any man out there; her emotional and mental strength was amazing. She was a hardworking, independent woman that told you exactly how it was, never sugar coated anything. My grandfather was a WWII Purple Heart veteran and when my husband was deployed to Iraq, I asked her how she dealt with his 2 plus years deployment. I’ll always remember her words, “Steph you are a mother and these babies need you more now than ever, you get it together and focus on them. Yes, it will be hard, but I know you and I