VIEWPOINT MAGAZINE Volume 2.3 March 2014 | Page 12

The Five L
ove Languages

By Ha Sung Kang

A survey consisted of 73 MICS students was

Mountainview High School Love Language Survey

conducted from 9th to 12th grade about their
primary love languages. Just as everybody has
their own unique personalities, individuals give
and receive love in different ways. There are five
distinct love languages as proposed by Dr. Gary
Chapman. To develop healthier relationships and
to avoid misunderstandings, it is important to
understand the different kinds of love languages.
So let’s explore each of the love languages with
some insight from the seniors!

PHYSICAL TOUCH (KARTINI LEDERMANN)
People whose primary language is Physical Touch receive love through
physical contacts—hugs, kisses, holding hands, high-fives, and other
thoughtful touches to display excitement, warmth, care, and concern
for others. They feel loved when they are shown constant physical
affection.
“My love language is PHYSICAL TOUCH. I don’t know how many
times a day I have to stroke Pia’s face. It just calms me down, and it
reminds me that I have a friend who is willing to put up with me. I
welcome hearty handshakes and hugs (even awkward ones), but I am
uncomfortable with hand-holding. I try to stay away from other
people’s hands as much as possible.”

QUALITY TIME (VINCENT HALIM)
In Quality Time, love is equivalent to a full, undivided attention.
Spending uninterrupted time talking or doing activities together makes
them feel truly special and loved. Time becomes a strong communicator
of love, and deeper connections are strengthened through the sharing of
time.
“Growing up, my father always reminded me that not everything in life
is about myself. But oftentimes, I would get so caught up by my
busyness and selfish desires that I forget to spend time with my loved
ones. So while you still have the opportunity, spend your time
meaningfully with your family and friends to show that you care about
them, and create many memories that will be cherished in the future.
Carpe Diem!”

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