More to Death Edition3 2014 | Page 64

New elements in next year’s festival will include the first secondary school conference on death and grieving in conjunction with Child Bereavement UK,a range of new topics including coping with sudden deaths, advice on being at the bedside of someone who is dying and dementia and end of life. There will be writing workshops, photography projects and singing events as well as a Day of the Dead Ceilidh with local band Kismet, more Death Cafes in Oxford and around the county and repeats of some of the most popular elements from last time. I am delighted to be working with Sue Brayne (The D Word) and Hazel May (co author of Enriched Care Planning for People with Dementia) in developing this Festival. We look forward to seeing you there. I think Finity in Buckinghamshire are doing very interesting work and will be featuring it in the Festival. I am a celebrant and I run a green burial ground on the Oxfordshire/Wiltshire border. I am passionate about working with people so they understand all the choices they have about how they go about arranging funerals and burials. It rapidly became clear to me that I needed to reach people before they come to me at the burial ground when a death has already occurred. They are then in a state of shock and grief and it feels hard to take the time to think about things slowly. When the person who has died has left no clue about their wishes it can feel very confusing. BURIAL GROUND CIC on the border of Oxfordshire/Wiltshire This can really increase the amount of pain experienced especially when different family members do not agree what their mum might have wanted or when they plan it all as they think best and then find an outline of wishes they did not know existed which suggests something quite different from what they arranged. We were very proud to be the runners-up in the South West region People’s awards from the Natural Death Centre.