More to Death Edition3 2014 | Page 20

They informed the Hospice of their Direct It Yourself plans and although surprised, as no one had done this before, they went into overdrive to help make it happen: booking an appointment to see the registrar to get the green burial form and arranging for a nurse to help when collecting William’s body. Gently wrapping him in the shroud and carrying him to the van they drove him home and put the Flexmort blanket on while he spent the night in the van. The family of 11 had an Indian takeaway meal and lit an outdoor fire by the van. The next morning in glorious sunshine the back of the van was opened and the children – rather nervously at first – stroked his face, did his hair and arranged their flowers around him – they had prepared wild flowers from the garden.