The Hotmix Game
W
e were the
hosts of this
little
adult
part. But we
were stressed out. This
cold winter day started
with the heating of our
house breaking down. The
emergency repair service
worked on it the whole day.
But late afternoon they
had to give up. We rushed
to a shop and bought an
electric heater. It should
heat up our living room, for
the party. The heater was
strong. Too strong for our
electrical fuses. They blew
out when we turned up the
heater. The lights went out.
We had to experiment for
an hour. Finally, we arrived
at a setting that was strong
enough to heat the room
but still doable for our
fuses. Then the first guests
arrived.
It was a small party. Just
four super nice couples and
us. But the heating thing
had stressed us out. We
were still afraid any second
the fuses would blow again,
and the lights go out. All
the couples were much
more experienced swingers
than us. So we thought
we just lean back, enjoy
conversations and let them
start the action.
15
“Innovative sex can add passion to
a relationship.”
No one started the action.
It became evident that we
need an icebreaker. “An
icebreaker? How about
the hotmix game?” Emily
rushed into the kitchen. Two
minutes later she brought
in a tray with six large cups
of water. Three of them
filled with ice cubes. Three
of them filled with steaming
hot water…
It
is
incredible
how
innovative sex can add
passion to a relationship.
In this article, we want to
share one of our favorite
practices. For many people,
it will fit into the category of
innovative sex. So let’s dig
into it.
Going Down Hot and Cold
Everyone loves oral sex.
You can enjoy it in a myriad
of ways. Yet, for us, there is
a standout variant of oral
intercourse that can be
quite magical. We named
it after the screen name
that we use in our adult
communities: Hotmix.
The hotmix experience
involves hot and ice-cold
That’s what we did. For water. Let’s start with the
three hours. Still, everybody cold part. Fill a large mug
was sitting there, talking. with ice cubes. Now add
some cold water. The goal
is to keep the water in the
cup as cold as possible for
the next hour. If you don’t
have a big mug, you can
use a pitcher to keep the
water cold.
The next mug is for the
hot water. The water must
not be freakishly hot. The
ideal temperature at a
point when it is just about
drinkable. That is about 60°
C / 140° F. You don’t have to
be scientific about it. Just
make it hot, but drinkable.
Emily likes to use a kettle
with a built-in thermometer
display to heat up the water
just to the right point.
Use the largest mugs that
A pitcher can keep the water cold, if you don’t have
large mugs at home.