Modern Business Magazine September 2016 | Page 32

MODERN CONNECTIONS Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, and Six Degrees of Separation By Ivan Misner The idea that we are all connected through Six Degrees of Separation is rooted in myth—not in fact. The studies the myth arose from indicate clearly that some people are better connected than others. Being able to make successful connections is not an entitlement. Instead, it is a skill that only some actually develop. What do Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, and Six Degrees of Separation have in common? The answer is – people all around the world believe in them. But, since I don’t wish to do an exposé on Santa Claus or the Easter Bunny, I’m going to leave those icons alone. I want to talk about the Six Degrees of Separation idea. This is the widely-held belief that we are all connected to each other through, at most, six intermediary connections or people. Separation is rooted in myth—not in fact. I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings, but it’s just not true. In fact, it is a widespread urban legend. I know, I know—you’re thinking, “What? That can’t be! It’s common knowledge that we are all separated by six connections to anyone in the world.” Well, I hate to burst your bubble, but the idea that we are all connected through Six Degrees of The legend originally stems from several “small world experiments” conducted by Stanley Milgram in the 1960s and 70s. These experiments involved sending folders or letters from a group of people in one part of the country to a specific person (whom they did not know) in another part of the country. The people were told to get the material to someone 32 ModernBusiness September 2016 who might know someone that would know the individual to whom the material was to be delivered to. This process formed a chain of connections linking the people together. It was, in fact, found that the letters or folders which eventually arrived in the right person’s hands took, on average, between five and six connections or degrees. This part is true; however, if you look closer, you