Modern Business Magazine May 2016 | Page 58

MODERN LEADERSHIP Five Tips To Attracting The People You Deserve By Naomi Simson Have you noticed you attract the same sort of person into your life over and over and get incredibly frustrated by them? The first step is to take a look in the mirror and accept full responsibility for what is happening. How to create the relationships we deserve in our lives. Capital One CEO Richard Fairback once said, “At most companies, people spend two per cent of their time recruiting and 75 per cent managing their recruiting mistakes.” Now, you may not be in a business where you need to build a team, but 58 ModernBusiness May 2016 I believe this statement is relevant personally as well as in business. As an individual, have you noticed you attract the same sort of person into your life over and over and get incredibly frustrated by them? It may be poor relationships with co-workers, or in your personal relationships. If you find you’re in the 75 per cent statistic, whether at work or play, the first step is to take a look in the mirror and accept full responsibility for what is happening. Which can be a huge slap in the face. But I believe we all have a responsibility to work harder on ourselves in order to create the relationships we deserve in our lives. That annoying co-worker – or serial unsuitable boy or girlfriend - is often a mirror held up to our own behavior. I’m glad to say that the 75 per cent recruiting mistakes statistic does not hold at RedBalloon, not least due to the active role of our employee experience manager, Megan Bromley, who has been integral in us winning so many “Great” and “Best” places to work awards. Here are the 5 top tips she lives