Modern Business Magazine May 2016 | Page 42

MODERN THINKING The 3 Hidden Benefits of Doubt: why self-doubt makes leaders better By Jason Fox C onfidence, certainty and conviction: these have traditionally been qualities we’d associate with a strong leader. And yet, such strong qualities may be the very thing preventing meaningful progress. One of my most favourite books of 2014 was Oliver Burkeman’s The Antidote: happiness for people who can’t stand positive thinking. In this book Burkeman challenges many of the conventional ‘positive thinking’ approaches to happiness, instead advocating what he calls ‘the negative path’ to happiness. Instead of trying to actively pursue happiness (while trying to avoid or run away from negative emotions), Burkeman suggests we instead go the other way: looking to negative experiences and embracing the learning inherent within them. A similar approach can be applied to the concepts of clarity and conviction. If you want these things, you could set forth a crystal clear goal. You can make it rock solid, and temper it with unwavering persistence and conviction. Or— you could take a counterintuitive approach, and turn toward the 42 ModernBusiness May 2016 hidden benefits of doubt. Let’s look at a few of these. 1 Doubt makes ideas stronger Johann Wolfgang von Goethe once said that “Doubt grows with knowledge.” Likewise, Bertrand Russell once quipped that“The fundamental cause of trouble in the world today is that the stupid are cocksure while the intelligent are full of doubt.” It’s quite apparent that doubt is fundamental to discovery. It’s an inherent element of the scientific method, and the precursor to all great questions and breakthroughs. Doubt births wisdom and is deeply linked to quality ideas. It’s uncomfortable, sure — but we know that all growth and development happens just outside our comfort zone. The best business strategy sessions I’ve facilitated and experienced are the ones that are full of angst and doubt. They’re not joyous or comfortable — they’re a hard and frustrating kind of fun. Quick fixes are resisted, and time is spent within the held tension of uncertainty. From this space, new ideas and pathways emerge that would not have been possible if we were simply ticking boxes and following a rushed agenda. Doubt makes us ask more questions — better questions — which makes us explore more pathways. This, in turn, can lead to more clarity, confidence and conviction. We see more, and through the pursuit of good questions; we know more. 2 Doubt makes leaders better Have you ever felt that, sooner or later, your colleagues and everyone around you will realise that you’re not as smart as people think you are. That you are not really that qualified for the position you hold. And that one day people will point at you and shout impostor! — exposing you for the fraud that you are. I get that feeling nearly all the time. It’s called the impostor syndrome. It’s the scenario whereby we constantly compare ourselves to our talented peers. Or more specifically, we compare our own doubt-ridden internal perceptions with the confident facade that others project. We feel that there is a big discrepancy — but for all we know, they could be full of self-doubt too.