Modern Business Magazine February 2016 | Page 25

MODERN LEADERSHIP happen to you’ and thinking that at that moment Jackson was standing outside at home waiting for me — and I was not going be turning up anytime soon. I rang Jackson and he immediately ran across the park in his school uniform and socks to find me. As you can imagine, I was pretty upset and I just said how scared I was of what could have happened. Jackson gave me a hug and calmly said to me, ‘Mum, you can’t think of it like that. You need to think of it like this—you drive a safe car and the airbags worked.’ I just hugged him with pride about his perfect, powerful and positive response. I am sharing this with you because every day when I am faced with the challenges of running this business, I often ask myself, ‘How would Jackson reframe this?’ I spoke to Cindy about how and why she used such a personal story. She said, ‘Not all stories need to be this personal but this story has had the most incredible impact on my business and the way I connect with my people. There is a real strength in showing vulnerability as a leader.’ Jargon to genuine Using corporate jargon is easy and being genuine is hard. Leaders like Cindy, who have the courage to show vulnerability and share personal stories, significantly increase their ability to engage, inspire and ignite. They know that a story will trump jargon every single time. Gabrielle Dolan works across Corporate Australian helping leaders humanise the way the lead by being more ‘real’. Her latest book Ignite: Real leadership, real talk, real results, is available online at all major retailers. Gabrielle is offering a discount of 20% to Business Chicks readers for her Public Business Storytelling workshops in Sydney or Melbourne. Enter the following coupon code when purchasing tickets: BizChicksDiscount at www. gabrielledolan.com February 2016 ModernBusiness 25